Mini Break Down – Threesomes

On July 11, 2017, Posted by , In Knowledge,Mini Breakdown, With 1 Comment

Ready to Try a Threesome?

Again, absolutely not for everyone and maybe the top of the wish list for others. Either is okay!
IF BOTH partners are on board for a threesome this can be an amazing experience that grows your relationship. If one partner is just kinda doing it because their partner wants one. It can go horribly wrong. Unless you are 100% into the idea of having a threesome, DO NOT attempt one.
If you are very much interested in having a threesome, and you have talked to your partner about it. It is so so important to talk about the boundaries. Be completely open and honest about what you would be comfortable with, and WHO you are going to choose to be your third.
DO NOT invite someone over for drinks and then pop the question (this has happened to me TWICE in the past, as flattered as I was, it didn’t feel super awesome). Although, it is possible for a threesome to just happen organically (with experience), it should be communicated while all participants are sober!
Really talk about (between you and your third) if you want your third to identify as a woman or a man. Safe words, how much attention should be given to whom. How long your third will stay after play or if they are welcome to stay the night.
I recommend going to a SAFE local sex club and talking with the members about their experience. You might even find your third there!
Here is a video about jealousy during threesomes or group sex:

One Comment so far:

  1. […] Victoria writes about the best way to go about arranging a threesome at her blog, Euphoric Epiphany. […]

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